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Talking and Not Talking
Finding Balance as a Coach
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My passion is helping people
discover their agile instincts
and develop their coaching
abilities.
Allison Pollard, Agile Coach
Activity: Talking and Not Talking
Find a partner
The person with the most colorful shirt will talk
The subject is why agile is better than waterfall
The other person will listen – no talking
2 minutes
What was it like to talk?
What was it like to listen?
Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
Our presence always says something
How are you impacting those around you?
Image created by Dooder - Freepik.com
What impact do you WANT
to have as a coach?
What impact do you
NOT want to have as
a coach?
Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
Brainstorm
Mingle:
Who do you want to be as a Coach?
Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
How should
we work
together?
Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
Coaching is a relationship
of design.
You are creating me as
your coach, your ally, your
champion.
Activity: Design Your Coaching Alliance
Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
 Find a partner; decide who is coach and who
is team member
 Talk about how you would best work together,
addressing questions like:
 What would have this be a powerful
relationship?
 How will we know if coaching is working?
 What can we count on from each other?
 What is the best way to confront you?
Yes! The
goal is
safety for
us both
And we can
re-design
later as
needed?
What is your Coaching Style?
 What is important for you to have in a coaching relationship?
 What would not work for you?
 If the relationship feels awkward, what might be needed to
make it safe?
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Wrap-up & Takeaways
 Your presence always says something as a coach
 Know what impact you would like to have as a coach
 Be aware if you’re acting from your dream or your
nightmare
 Design coaching alliances that allow you to coach others
effectively
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Contact
allison.pollard@improving.com
@allison_pollard
www.allisonpollard.com
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Talking and not talking--finding balance as a coach

  • 1. Talking and Not Talking Finding Balance as a Coach Image created by Dooder - Freepik.com
  • 2. My passion is helping people discover their agile instincts and develop their coaching abilities. Allison Pollard, Agile Coach
  • 3. Activity: Talking and Not Talking Find a partner The person with the most colorful shirt will talk The subject is why agile is better than waterfall The other person will listen – no talking 2 minutes
  • 4. What was it like to talk? What was it like to listen? Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
  • 5. Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
  • 6. Our presence always says something How are you impacting those around you? Image created by Dooder - Freepik.com
  • 7. What impact do you WANT to have as a coach? What impact do you NOT want to have as a coach? Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com Brainstorm
  • 8. Mingle: Who do you want to be as a Coach? Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
  • 9. How should we work together? Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com Coaching is a relationship of design. You are creating me as your coach, your ally, your champion.
  • 10. Activity: Design Your Coaching Alliance Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com  Find a partner; decide who is coach and who is team member  Talk about how you would best work together, addressing questions like:  What would have this be a powerful relationship?  How will we know if coaching is working?  What can we count on from each other?  What is the best way to confront you? Yes! The goal is safety for us both And we can re-design later as needed?
  • 11. What is your Coaching Style?  What is important for you to have in a coaching relationship?  What would not work for you?  If the relationship feels awkward, what might be needed to make it safe? Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com
  • 12. Wrap-up & Takeaways  Your presence always says something as a coach  Know what impact you would like to have as a coach  Be aware if you’re acting from your dream or your nightmare  Design coaching alliances that allow you to coach others effectively Images created by Dooder - Freepik.com

Editor's Notes

  1. Debrief activity
  2. Debrief activity
  3. WHY THIS TOPIC Talk a lot in the beginning when starting with a team Talk a little in the end before transitioning away from a team Realizing my presence always says something, so what impact do I want to have and how do I make that happen?
  4. What impact do we want to have? Not have? We create from our dreams, so it is helpful to know where we are operating from
  5. When we’re clear on the impact we want to have with teams, we can then have conversations with our teams about how we’ll work together to make our “dreams” a reality (or at least avoid our nightmares). This can include educating the team on our coaching style, what to expect, and even our asking for permission to engage in certain ways.