The day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit” and “don't rush the process. The pessimist complains about the wind. The optimist expects it to change. The realist adjusts the sail. If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain. If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it. Be grateful for what you have and stop complaining – it bores everybody else, does you no good, and doesn’t solve any problems. When you complain, you make yourself a victim. Leave the situation, change the situation, or accept it. All else is madness.