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2. One thing humans have a hard time
doing is predicting their instincts.

3. This is something Mother Nature was
very, very clever about when she set
them up.

4. Sure, we all have a raw desire to eat,
for example, but we also have a huge
range of things that can satisfy that
hunger.

5. Even if you have a specific desire for a
cheeseburger, for example, you won't
starve if you can't find one.

6. There's plenty of other things that can
fit the bill.

7. Or imagine being really thirsty.

8. Sure, you may have a hankering for red
Gatorade, but if they don't have it at
your local 7-11 you won't die of thirst.

9. You'll happily drink another flavor or
even (gasp!) water.

10. Imagine if your friend invited you to a
dinner party.

11. Would your presence be contingent on
what they were serving? Not likely.

12. This is true for all instincts, especially
sexual or romantic desire.

13. That's the strongest.

14. However, if it seems easy to switch a
pizza for a cheeseburger, even when
you've had your heart set on pizza,
why is it so hard to stop pursuing any
particular girl when she's simply not
into you?

15. The Internet is filled with guys and gals
DESPERATE to make that "one person"
like them.

16. However, if you step back, the process
is the same.

17. Before they met that person, they had
a "raw instinct" or desire to meet
somebody.

18. Then they met that person and they
were close enough.

19. So now all their energies are focused
on that "one person."

20. But consider this.

21. You're friend tells you he's having
chicken burritos for dinner, and invites
you over.

22. You're fantasizing about chicken
burritos all week.

23. But then you show up, and he's got
beef stew instead.

24. Will you pout, and refuse to eat? Will
you feel like you're friend has tricked
you?

25. No.

26. You may say something, but you'll eat
the beef stew, and probably enjoy it.

27. So why can't we switch our romantic
interests as quickly as we can switch
our food interests?

28. It all comes down to our ancient
brains.

29. Food was always just around the
corner.

30. And built deeply into our collective
experience is that there's plenty of
different kinds of food.

31. So we KNOW on a deep, instinctive
level, that if we don't get the particular
food we're after, they'll be a suitable
replacement sooner or later.

32. But with romantic interests, it's a LOT
different.

33. For most of our history, most people
only had a couple chances in their
entire lives to hook up.

34. So we were programmed to see those
few chances as DO OR DIE on a deep,
instinctive level.

35. That's why when you've got your sites
set on your crush, it's nearly
IMPOSSIBLE to forget about them and
find somebody else.

36. But here's the thing.

37. If you literally FORCE yourself to
interact with other people, you WILL
find somebody that will replace them
in your mind.

38. This is simply a matter of overriding
unconscious instincts and
programming with conscious thinking
and behavior.

39. This is the stuff civilization is made of.

40. This is what civilized people do.

41. If you simply make it a habit, make it
part of who you are, to interact with
girls (or guys) on a regular basis.

42. You will be a lot less likely to get
messed up emotionally by a crush that
doesn't return the affection.

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