pag-ibig at pag-aasawa ng tao - pinagmulan at kahulugan

1. Ikaw ba ang magiging
Valentine ko?

2. Saint Valentine - Patron ng mga mag-asawa.

3. Si Emperor Claudius II "ang Goth" ay napakalupit,gusto lang niya ng
mga solong lalaki para sa kanyang hukbo, libre sa kasalan,upang
ipaglaban ang kanyang Imperyo saanman sila ipadala.

4. Ipinagtanggol ni Valentine, Obispo ng Terni sa Umbria, Italy ang karapatan ng mga mag-asawa na
magpakasalat pinakasalan niya sila ng palihim. Siya ay dinakip, ikinulong at pinugutan ng ulo.

5. Ang Pag-ibig ng
Tao ayisa sa mga
pinakadakilang
regalong Diyos sa
sangkatauhan.
Sinasabi sa atin ng
bibliyailan sa mga
sikreto nitosa –
Genesis 2,18
Pagkatapos ay sinabi ng
Panginoon,“Hindi
magandana dapat ang
lalakimag-isa;Gagawin
ko siyang katulong
bilang partner niya."

6. Kaya't ginawa ng Panginoong Diyos mula sa lupa ang bawat hayopng parang at ng bawa't
ibon sa himpapawid, at dinala sa tao upang makitakung ano ang itatawag niya sa kanila; at
anuman ang tawag ng tao sa bawat nilalang na may buhay,iyon ang pangalan nito. Ang tao ay
nagbigay ng mga pangalan sa lahat ng mga baka, at sa mga ibon sa himpapawid, at sabawat
hayop sa parang; ngunit para sa lalaki ay walang nakitang katulong bilang kanyang kasama.

7. Sa gayo'y pinatulog ng Panginoong Dios ang lalake, at siya'y nakatulog;pagkatapos ay
kinuha niya ang isa niyang tadyang at isinara ang lugar nito ng laman.At ang tadyang
na kinuha ng Panginoong Dios sa lalakenagpakababae siya at dinala sa lalaki.

8. Pagkatapos ay sinabi ng lalaki, "Ito sa wakas ay buto ng
aking mga butoat laman ng aking laman; ito ay tatawaging
Babae, sapagkat sa Tao kinuha ang isang ito."

9. Kaya't iniiwan ng lalaki ang kanyang ama at inaat kumapit
sa kanyang asawa, at sila ay naging isang laman.

10. Pinagpala ni Jesucristo ang pag-ibig at pagsasama ng mag-
asawa -nang pumunta siya sa kasal sa Cana.Pinalitan niya
ang tubig ng masaganang alak para sa kapistahan.

11. Saganang pinagpala ni Kristong Panginoon ang maraming aspetong pag-
ibig na ito,bumubulusok mula sa bukal ng banal na pag-ibigat
nakabalangkas sa modelo ng Kanyang pagkakaisa sa Kanyang Simbahan.

12. Siya ay nananatili sa kanila pagkatapos nito upang kung paanong minahal Niya ang Simbahanat
ibinigay ang Kanyang sarili sa ngalan niya, maaaring ibigin ng mga mag-asawabawat isa nang
may walang hanggang katapatan sa pamamagitan ng kapwa pagbibigay sa sarili.

13. Ang tunay na pag-ibig sa
kasal ay nahuhuli sa banal na
pag-ibig at pinamamahalaan
at pinagyayamansa
pamamagitan ng tumutubos
na kapangyarihan ni Kristo
at ng gawaing nagliligtasng
Simbahan,upang ang pag-
ibig na ito ay humantongang
mga asawa sa Diyos na may
makapangyarihang epekto at
maaaringtulungan at
palakasin sila sa mataas
na katungkulan ng pagiging
ama o ina. .

14. Para sa kadahilanang ito ang mga Kristiyanong asawa ay may isang espesyal na sakramento
kung saan sila ay pinatibayat tumanggap ng isang uri ng pagtatalaga sa mga tungkulin at
dignidad ng kanilang estado.Sa bisa ng sakramento na ito, bilang mag-asawa ay tinutupad
nila ang kanilang obligasyon sa kasal at pamilya,sila ay natagos ng espiritu ni Kristo, na
suffuseskanilang buong buhay na may pananampalataya, pag-asa at pag-ibig sa kapwa.

15. Sa gayon ay lalo nilang isinusulong ang pagiging perpekto ng kanilang sariling mga
personalidad,gayundin ang kanilang pagpapakabanal sa isa't isa, at samakatuwid
ay nag-aambag nang sama-samasa ikaluluwalhati ng Diyos. Gaudium et Spes 48

16. Ikaw ang liwanag ng mundo. Hindi maitatago ang isang bayan na itinayo sa burol. Hindi rin
nagsisindi ang mga tao ng lampara at inilalagay ito sa ilalim ng mangkok. Sa halip ay inilagay
nila ito sa kinatatayuan nito,at nagbibigay ng liwanag sa lahat ng nasa bahay. Sa parehong
paraan, hayaang lumiwanag ang iyong liwanag sa harap ng iba,upang makita nila ang
Inyong mabubuting gawa at luwalhatiin nila ang inyong Ama sa langit.. Mt 5,14 -16
Patotoo ngtapat
na mag-asawa

17. Mga lalaki, ibigin ninyo ang inyong asawa, gaya ng pag-ibig ni Kristo sa simbahan at ibinigay
ang kanyang sarili para sa kanya.Sa gayunding paraan, dapat ibigin ng mga asawang lalaki
ang kanilang asawa gaya ng pagmamahal nila sa sarili nilang katawan.Ang nagmamahal sa
kanyang asawa ay nagmamahal sa kanyang sarili. Sapagkat walang sinuman ang napopoot sa
kanyang sariling katawan,ngunit inaalagaan at inaalagaan niya ito, gaya ng ginagawa ni
Kristo sa simbahan,sapagkat tayo ay mga sangkap ng kanyang katawan. Efeso 5,25- .

18. Ang lalaki at babae, na nilikha bilang pagkakaisa ng dalawa, sa kanilang karaniwang
sangkatauhan, ay tinawag upang mabuhaysa pakikiisa ng pag-ibig. At sa gayon ay sumasalamin
sa mundo ang komunidad ng pag-ibig na matatagpuan natin sa Diyos,na kung saan ang tatlong
tao ay nagmamahalan sa isa't isa sa matalik na misteryo ng nag-iisang banal na buhay.

19. ideolohiya ng kasarian,binabawasan ang misteryo ng
sekswalidad ng taosa isang penomenong pangkultura
lamang,na ginagamit nito bilang batayan para sawalang
pagkakaibang sekswal na pag-uugali.

20. Ang ideolohikal na pananaw na ito ay nawawalan ng pag-
asapatungkol sa kakayahan ng isang lalaki at babaeupang
mamuhay ng panghabambuhay na conjugal union bilang mga tao.

21. Ang kabuuang pisikal na pagbibigay ng sarili ay isang
kasinungalingan kung hindi ito ang tandaat bunga ng kabuuang
personal na pagbibigay ng sarili, kung saan ang buong tao,kasama
ang temporal na sukat, ay naroroon: ; Familiaris Consortio 11

22. Ang kasal, kung gayon,
ay malayo sa pagiging
epekto ng pagkakataon
o ang resulta ng ang
bulag na ebolusyonng
mga likas na pwersa.
Ito ay sa katotohanan
ang matalino at
mapagbigay institusyon
ng Diyos ang Lumikha,
na ang layunin ay
epekto sa taoAng
kanyang mapagmahal
na disenyo.

23. Bilang kinahinatnan, mag-asawa, sa pamamagitan ng kaloob na iyon ng kanilang
sarili,na tiyak at eksklusibo sa kanila lamang, bumuo ng pagsasama ng dalawang
taokung saan sila ay nagpapasakdal sa isa't isa, na nakikipagtulungan sa Diyos
sa henerasyonat pagpapalaki ng mga bagong buhay. HUMANAE VITAE 8

24. Ang kasal ng mga
mayroon nabinyagan
ay bilang karagdagan,
namuhunan sa ang
dignidad ng isang
sakramento tanda ng
biyaya, para ito ay
kumakatawan ang
pagkakaisa ni Kristoat
ang Kanyang
Simbahan.

25. Ang pag-ibig na
ito ay higit sa lahat
ganap na tao,
isang tambalan
ngdiwa at diwa.
Hindi, kung
gayon, tanong
lang ng natural
na instincto
emosyonal na
drive.
Ito rin ay, at higit
sa lahat, isang
gawa ng malayang
kalooban

26. ito ay sinadya hindi lamang upang makaligtas sa kagalakan at kalungkutan ng pang-
araw-araw na buhay,ngunit din upang lumago, upang ang mag-asawa ay maging sa
isang paraanisang puso at isang kaluluwa, at magkakasamang makamit ang
kanilang katuparan bilang tao. HV 9

27. Ito ay isang pag-ibig na TOTAL —ang napakaespesyal na anyo ng personal na pagkakaibigan
kung saan ang mag-asawa ay bukas-palad na nagbabahagi ng lahat, na hindi pinapayagan ang
mga hindi makatwirang eksepsiyonat hindi nag-iisip lamang ng kanilang sariling
kaginhawahan. Kung sino man ang totoong nagmamahal sa kanyang kaparehanagmamahal
hindi lamang para sa kung ano ang natatanggap niya, ngunit mahal ang kapareha para sa
kapakanan ng kapareha,kuntento na mapagyaman ang kapwa sa kaloob ng kanyang sarili. HV 9

28. Ang pag-ibig na may
asawa aytapat din at
eksklusibo sa lahat ng
iba pa, at ito hanggang
kamatayan.
Ganito ang asawa at
naintindihan naman ito
ni misissa araw kung
saan, lubos na nalalaman
kung ano ginagawa nila,
malaya silang ipinangako
ang kanilang sarili sa isa
isa pa sa kasal.
Kahit na ang katapatan
na ito ng mag-
asawaminsan nagdudulot
ng kahirapan, walang
meron ang karapatang
igiit na ito ay imposible;
ito ay, sa kabaligtaran,
laging marangal at
karapat-dapat.

29. Ang halimbawa ng hindi mabilang na mga mag-asawa ay
nagpapatunay hindi lamang na ang katapatan ay naaayon sa
kalikasan ng pag-aasawa, kundi ito rin ang pinagmumulan ng
malalim at walang hanggang kaligayahan. HV 9

30. Sa wakas, ang pag-ibig na ito ay
mabunga Hindi ito ganap na
nakakulong samapagmahal na
pagpapalitan ng mag-asawa;
nagsisikap din itong lampasan ito
upang magkaroon ng bagong buhay

31. "Ang pag-aasawa at pag-iibigan ay ayon sa kanilang likas na inorden tungo sa pagpapalaki at
edukasyon ng mga anak. Ang mga anak ay talagang ang pinakamataas na regalo ng kasal at
nag-aambag sa pinakamataas na antas sa kapakanan ng kanilang mga magulang.“ HV 9

32. Mabuhay ang mag-asawa, ang kanilang pagkakatugma,
ang kanilang pagmamahalan! Salamat sa Panginoon
sa regalong ito at sa bokasyong magmahal.

33. SOME LOVE SONGS
The first time ever I saw your face
The first time ever I saw your face
I thought the sun rose in your eyes
And the moon and stars
were the gifts you gave
To the night and the empty skies,
my love
To the night and the empty skies
The first time ever
I kissed your mouth
I felt the earth turn in my hand
Like the trembling
heart of a captive bird
That was there at my command,
my love
That was there at my command
The first time ever I lay with you
And felt your heart
beat close to mine
I thought our joy
would fill the earth
And last….
Song by Robert Flack

34. 'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves
and all your edges
All your perfect
imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end
and my beginning
Even when I lose
I'm winning
'Cause I give you
all of me
And you give me
all of you,
Lyrics of “All of me”
by John Legend

35. Where do I begin
To tell the story
Of how great a love can be
The sweet love story
That is older than the sea
The simple truth about the
love she brings to me
Where do I start
With her first hello
She gave new meaning
To this empty world of mine
There'll never be
Another love, another time
She came into my life
And made the living fine
She fills my heart
She fills my heart
With very special things
With angel songs
With wild imaginings
She fills my soul
With so much love
That anywhere I go
I'm never lonely
With her along who
could be lonely
I reach for her hand
It's always there
How long does it last
Can love be measured by
the hours in a day
I have no answers now
But this much I can say
I know I'll need her 'till
the stars all burn away
And she'll be there
How long does it last
Can love be measured by
the hours in a day
I have no answers now
But this much I can say
I know I'll need her
'till the stars all
burn away
And she'll be there
LOVE STORY
Ryan O’Neal
Ali MacGraw

36. ¿Will you be my Valentine? – guide or index
•Saint Valentín –
Patron of lovers
Emperor Claudio II "the Goth" was so cruel that he only wanted single men among his troops,
but only those who were free of marriage obligations, to defend the Roman empire
Valentine, the bishop of Terni in Umbría defended the marriages of the couples
And married them secretly. He was jailed and decapitated
•Human love is one of the greatest gifts of God to man and woman
Génesis 2,18 – God said:
«It’s not good for man to be alone.
I’ll make him an adecuate helpmate».
And so Yahveh formed from the earth all the animals of the fields
and all the birds of the air and brought them to man to have him name them
The man put names on all the cattel and birds of the air and all the wild animals
Yet he didn’t find an adecuate helpmate
Then Yahveh sent a profound sleep on manand he slept
And he took one of his ribs and filled the cleft with flesh
He formed woman from the rib he had taken and he brought her to man
He then exclaimed “now this is bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh.
She’ll be called woman, because she’s been taken from man”
“Therefore man shall leave his father and mother and be united to his wife and they sahall be one flesh.”
•Christ the Lord abundantly blessed this many-faceted love,
welling up as it does from the fountain of divine love
and structured as it is on the model of His union with His Church.
For as God of old made Himself present to His people through a covenant of love and fidelity,
so now the Savior of men and the Spouse of the Church
comes into the lives of married Christians through the sacrament of matrimony.
He abides with them thereafter
so that just as He loved the Church and handed Himself over on her behalf,
the spouses may love each other with perpetual fidelity through mutual self-bestowal.
“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. 15
Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand,
and it gives light to everyone in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others,
that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven. - Mt 5,14 -16
•Saint Paul says
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26
to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27
and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish,
but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies.
He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body,
but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church Efesios 5,22-

37. Man and woman, created as a unity of two in a common humanity,
are called to live in a community of love
and thus reflect in the world the community of love that is in God
by which the three Persons love each other
in the intímate mystery of the one divine life
•Gender Ideology reduces the mystery of human sexualtiy to a mere cultural matter
as a base for the undiferentiated options of sexual behaviour
this ideological visión goes with a lack of confidence in the ability of man and woman
 to live forever as a personal community in a conjugal form,
which should respect the essential charateristics of unity and indisolubility
•Matrimony as a natural institution
This total physical self giving would be a scam
if it were not a sign and fruit of the donation of the whole person
 including his temporal dimensión FC 11
Matrimony is not a casual result or product of the evolution of unconscious natural forces
Its a wise institution of the Creator to achieve in humanity His plan of love.
The spouses, by their reciprocal personal self giving, proper and exclusive to them,
strive toward the unión of their beings to help perfect teach other,
to collaboratye with God in the generation and educaton of new lives. Humanae Vitae
•For baptised persons Matrimony is moreover a sacrament of grace, since they represent the unión of Christ with the Church
destined to hold and grow through the joys and sorrows of daily life,
so that the spouses become one sole heatr and one sole soul and together reach human perfection
•The QUALITIESof LOVE
It is TOTAL, that is, a unique form of personal friendship
By which the spouses share all generously without undue reservations or selfish calculations.
Whoever loves a spouse, does not do so for selfish gain,
 but for their own sake, glad to enrich with the gift of self
It is FAITHFUL
and EXCLUSIVEO until death
that’s how the spouses perceive the endeavour of the marriage bond
on the day they FREELY and fully AWARE accept it
Faithfulness can at times be difficult, but is always posible, noble, and meritorious
the example of many spouses down the ages shows
 that fidelity is not only connatural to matrimony
but also a spring of profound and lasting happiness
It is FRUITFUL
This not only means the fruitfulness of their love
But is destined to extend itself in procreating new lives
" matrimony and conjugal love are ordered by their very nature
 to the procreation and education of the prole.
The children are the best gift of marriage
And contribute to the good of their parents
•Long live “le difference,” Long live the couple and their love Thanks be to Lord for the dift of love in this human vocation

39. LIST OF PRESENTATIONS IN ENGLISH
Revised 30-9-2021
Advent and Christmas – time of hope and peace
All Souls Day
Amoris Laetitia – ch 1 – In the Light of the Word
Amoris Laetitia – ch 2 – The Experiences and Challenges of Families
Amoris Laetitia – ch 3 - Looking to Jesus, the Vocation of the Family
Amoris Laetitia – ch 4 - Love in Marriage
Amoris Laetitia – ch 5 – Love made Fruitfuol
Amoris Laetitia – ch 6 – Some Pastoral Perspectives
Amoris Laetitia – ch 7 – Towards a better education of children
Amoris Laetitia – ch 8 – Accompanying, discerning and integrating weaknwss
Amoris Laetitia – ch 9 – The Spirituality of Marriage and the Family
Beloved Amazon 1ª – A Social Dream
Beloved Amazon 2 - A Cultural Dream
Beloved Amazon 3 – An Ecological Dream
Beloved Amazon 4 - An Ecclesiastical Dream
Carnival
Christ is Alive
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 1 – Church and Family today
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 2 - God’s plan for the family
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 1 – family as a Community
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 2 – serving life and education
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 3 – mission of the family in society
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 4 - Family in the Church
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 4 Pastoral familiar
Football in Spain
Haurietis aquas – devotion to the Sacred Heart by Pius XII
Holidays and Holy Days
Holy Spirit
Holy Week – drawings for children
Holy Week – glmjpses of the last hours of JC
Inauguration of President Donald Trump
Juno explores Jupiter
Laudato si 1 – care for the common home
Laudato si 2 – Gospel of creation
Laudato si 3 – Human roots of the ecological crisis
Laudato si 4 – integral ecology
Laudato si 5 – lines of approach and action
Laudato si 6 – Education y Ecological Spirituality
Love and Marriage 12,3,4,5,6,7,8,9
Lumen Fidei – ch 1,2,3,4
Martyrs of North America and Canada
Medjugore Pilgrimage
Misericordiae Vultus in English
Mother Teresa of Calcuta – Saint
Pope Franciss in Thailand
Pope Francis in Japan
Pope Francis in Sweden
Pope Francis in Hungary, Slovaquia
Pope Francis in America
Pope Francis in the WYD in Poland 2016
Querida Amazonia
Resurrection of Jesus Christ –according to the Gospels
Russian Revolution and Communismo 3 civil war 1918.1921
Russian Revolution and Communism 1
Russian Revolution and Communismo 2
Saint Agatha, virgin and martyr
Saint Albert the Great
Saint Anthony of Padua
Saint Francis de Sales
Saint Francis of Assisi
Saint Ignatius of Loyola
Saint James, apostle
Saint John N. Neumann, bishop of Philadelphia
Saint Joseph
Saint Maria Goretti
Saint Martin of Tours
Saint Maximilian Kolbe
Saint Mother Theresa of Calcutta
Saint Jean Baptiste MarieaVianney, Curé of Ars
Saint John N. Neumann, bishop of Philadelphia
Saint John of the Cross
Saint Patrick and Ireland
Saints Zachary and Elizabeth, parents of John Baptis
Signs of hope
Sunday – day of the Lord
Thanksgiving – History and Customs
The Body, the cult – (Eucharist)
Valentine
Vocation – mconnor@legionaries.org
Way of the Cross – drawings for children
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40. LISTA DE PRESENTACIONES EN ESPAÑOL
Revisado 30-9-2021
Abuelos
Adviento y Navidad, tiempo de esperanza
Amor y Matrimonio 1 - 9
Amoris Laetitia – ch 1 – A la luz de la Palabre
Amoris Laetitia – ch 2 – Realidad y Desafíos de las Familias
Amoris Laetitia – ch 3 La mirada puesta en Jesús: Vocación de la Familia
Amoris Laetitia – ch 4 - El Amor en el Matrimonio
Amoris Laetitia – ch 5 – Amor que se vuelve fecundo
Amoris Laetitia – ch 6 – Algunas Perspectivas Pastorales
Amoris Laetitia – ch 7 – Fortalecer la educacion de los hijos
Amoris Laetitia – ch 8 – Acompañar, discernir e integrar la fragilidad
Amoris Laetitia – ch 9 – Espiritualidad Matrimonial y Familiar
Carnaval
Cristo Vive
Dia de todos los difuntos
Domingo – día del Señor
El camino de la cruz de JC en dibujos para niños
El Cuerpo, el culto – (eucarisía)
Espíritu Santo
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 1 – iglesia y familia hoy
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 2 - el plan de Dios para la familia
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 1 – familia como comunidad
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 2 – servicio a la vida y educación
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 3 – misión de la familia en la sociedad
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 3 – 4 - participación de la familia en la iglesia
Familiaris Consortio (FC) 4 Pastoral familiar
Fátima – Historia de las Apariciones de la Virgen
Feria de Sevilla
Haurietis aquas – el culto al Sagrado Corazón
Hermandades y cofradías
Hispanidad
Laudato si 1 – cuidado del hogar común
Laudato si 2 – evangelio de creación
Laudato si 3 – La raíz de la crisis ecológica
Laudato si 4 – ecología integral
Laudato si 5 – líneas de acción
Laudato si 6 – Educación y Espiritualidad Ecológica
Lumen Fidei – cap 1,2,3,4
Madre Teresa de Calcuta – Santa
María y la Biblia
Martires de Nor America y Canada
Medjugore peregrinación
Misericordiae Vultus en Español
Papa Francisco en Bulgaria
Papa Francisco en Rumania
Papa Francisco en Marruecos
Papa Francisco en México
Papa Francisco – mensaje para la Jornada Mundial Juventud 2016
Papa Francisco – visita a Chile
Papa Francisco – visita a Perú
Papa Francisco en Colombia 1 + 2
Papa Francisco en Cuba
Papa Francisco en Fátima
Papa Francisco en la JMJ 2016 – Polonia
Papa Francisco en Hugaría e Eslovaquia
Queridas Amazoznia 1,2,3,4
Resurrección de Jesucristo – según los Evangelios
Revolución Rusa y Comunismo 1, 2, 3
Santa Agata, virgen y martir
San Alberto Magno
San Antonio de Padua
San Francisco de Asis 1,2,3,4
San Francisco de Sales
Santa Maria Goretti
San Ignacio de Loyola
San José, obrero, marido, padre
San Juan Ma Vianney, Curé de’Ars
San Juan de la Cruz
San Juan N. Neumann, obispo de Philadelphia
San Martin de Tours
San Maximiliano Kolbe
Santa Teresa de Calcuta
San Padre Pio de Pietralcina
San Patricio e Irlanda
Santiago Apóstol
Santos Zacarias e Isabel, padres de Juan Bautista
Semana santa – Vistas de las últimas horas de JC
Vacaciones Cristianas
Valentín
Virgen de Guadalupe
Vocación – www.vocación.org
Vocación a evangelizar
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