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2. There's two pretty diverse schools of
thought when it comes to talking to
girls, especially the first time.

3. One is to simply be yourself.

4. This is much more honest, organic, real
and spontaneous.

5. If it works, there's nothing better than
two people spontaneously exchanging
that magical conversational energy
flow.

6. On the other hand, it can be pretty
terrifying.

7. If you ever get to those uncomfortable
silences, when nobody knows what to
say, it's a real rally-killer, as they say in
baseball.

8. To combat this fear, many guys try
memorized lines, and stories.

9. Even the entire conversation is kind of
like a stand up comedian doing his bit
for the thousandth time in front of a
laughing crowd.

10. Now, if you do this with girls, it can
work and work well.

11. Sure, the first few times you may
stumble, but once you've got your rap
down, it's pretty repeatable.

12. Walk up, spit out your ten minute set
of patterns, and get her fired up to
jump on your junk.

13. Of course, later on, she may wonder
what the heck happened.

14. That guy she met BEFORE having sex
was super fluent and articulate, and
now she's wondering why you don't
talk with such energy, enthusiasm, or
sentence structure.

15. If all you want is a string of one night
stands, then Bob's your uncle.

16. But if you want something more, more
natural is more better.

17. Less memorized and more
spontaneous.

18. But then you may run into those
uncomfortable silences.

19. What do you do then?

20. The easiest way is to simply practice
talking to people, wherever you go.

21. But instead of just talking about the
weather or why the bus is late or why
the local sports team sucks, see
yourself as a treasure hunter.

22. Make it a point to try and find
something interesting about
everybody you talk to.

23. This will do three very helpful things.

24. The first is it will make talking to
people a lot easier.

25. Since you've got a specific intention in
mind, you won't worry about trying to
keep the conversation going.

26. Two is it will give you a lot of
experience with a lot of people,
especially in feeling with those random
pauses that WILL come up.

27. And when you're talking to some
random dude or old lady in line at the
supermarket, those random pauses
won't bother you so much.

28. Three is it will give you a lot of
experience to draw from, especially
when you find some interesting
stories.

29. You may think that woman in front of
you in the supermarket is the most
boring stay at home mom ever, based
on her clothes and the items in her
cart.

30. But she might have been stuck on a
cruise ship for three weeks without
power, or gotten lost in a foreign
country, or something else totally
random AND amazing.

31. What do you do with these stories?

32. Whenever you're talking to a cute girl,
and you come up to one of those
pauses, just whip out a story of one of
your discovered treasures.

33. "Hey, that reminds me. I was talking
this lady at the supermarket the other
day, and she went on a cruise too, only
her ship sunk and she was rescued by
a Russian submarine!"

34. This will not only give you something
interesting to talk about, you'll come
across as a cool guy who can talk to
anybody, anywhere, any time.

35. Something that's very
attractive.
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