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1. EIGHT STRATEGIC TIPS FOR A
SUCCESSFUL FIRST DATE

2. 1. Don’t overcomplicate things
The first date with someone you know little or nothing about is full of
uncertainty. Don’t make things more complicated by trying to arrange
the perfect romantic dinner, or planning a whole day out. Instead,
keep things short and simple. A cup of coffee in a central location will
make it clear fast if your date is someone you would like to spend
more time with. And if things go well, the coffee could turn into a lunch
or dinner, adding some spontaneity into the mix.
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2. Don’t stress unnecessarily
A bit of anxiety is natural on a first date – in fact, it’s half the fun. But
you’ll want to eliminate the kind of stress that will make you flustered
and your date uncomfortable. Remember, the more relaxed you feel,
the more comfortable your date will be around you. One simple trick is
to sit at a right angle to your date rather than face them directly. This
takes the pressure off trying to fill every pause in the conversation,
and you can both do a bit of people-watching instead.
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3. Cut down the texting, and meet in person
The conversation might have started on an app or a website, but it
shouldn’t stay there for too long. Texting can certainly give you a
sense of another person, but to really get to know each other, you
need more than messages on a screen: facial expressions, body
language and tone of voice are just as important. So don’t waste time
on a virtual relationship – go out there and meet the real person
behind the words.
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4. Prepare some first date topics
You wouldn’t go for a job interview without preparing in advance, so
why should a first date be any different? Think about the sort of

3. questions you could ask, and some interesting answers to the
questions that may come your way. Don’t treat the first date like an
actual interview, though, or you’ll set alarm bells ringing. For some
great first date topics and questions, see this article.
Another way to boost your confidence is to do a bit of ‘power posing’
in advance. This means standing for a few minutes in an assertive
posture, hands on hips (think of a superhero), so as to trick the brain
into feeling more confident. Just don’t do it on the date itself, or you’ll
look ridiculous.
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5. Up your listening game
We all love to talk about ourselves – but don’t assume your date finds
you as interesting as you do. In fact, making it all about you sends the
wrong signals. On the other hand, you can’t just switch off and leave
all the talking to your date – that’s also a recipe for failure. The trick is
to listen intelligently and respond appropriately, such as when we
summarize a point and ask a follow-up question, e.g., “So, you spend
three months in Argentina, how was that?”.
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6. Create a strong first impression
First impressions count. It only takes a few seconds for someone to
form an opinion about you based on your appearance and demeanor.
A great way to make a positive first impression is to smile. Smiling is
one of the habits of likable people, a sign of happiness and a trainable
skill. By smiling more, not only will you start feeling better, you will
also project some of that positivity onto those around you. It’s all
about those good vibes!
Also, take some time to dress well, but stay true to your usual style,
and dress appropriately for the occasion. You wouldn’t turn up to a
cafe in a tuxedo, but neither should you turn up to a cocktail party in
shorts and t-shirt.

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7. Be true to yourself
Dating in the 21st century can feel like a competition, and perhaps it
has always been that way. But too often we measure our worth
against those we perceive to be ‘winning’, with the result that we try to
imitate and improve on what others are doing instead of finding our
own way.
But dating shouldn’t be about winners and losers. It’s about finding
someone you connect with and care about; someone who makes you
happy and who you can make happy in return. This is only possible
when you stay true to yourself and let your authenticity shine through.
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8. Complete your successful first date with the right
follow-up
So you felt a connection, the conversation flowed and you had lots of
things in common. Terrific. Now what? A successful first date is only
as good as the follow-up, and this means arranging another meeting.
You could do this right away, but it’s probably better not to put
someone on the spot.
Instead, why not send a message soon after just to say what a great
time you had, and suggest a time and place to meet again. Don’t
expect an immediate response, and don’t be impatient or else you’ll
seem desperate. Remember, if you went into your first date with a
smile, a bit of confidence, and a willingness to listen, then you’ve
probably already set yourself apart from the competition.
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