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synergetic
designing
Use the interactive
intelligence and
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Experience unity,
wholeness
and synergy.
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Find your
self-esteem, your
integrity and your
utopia.
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B1 base card - the process structure of NVC-plus
5. 3 devotion
Experience the others
in relation to you.
Experience yourself in relation to all
and to the synergetic field.
Beyond sympathetic and
unsympathetic there is this field.
Let's meet there.
2 frameworking
4 the work
Work in the interactive knowledge
and the field potential,
which emerges in a peaceful
togetherness.
Look for the right moment to stop
and start your next cycle.
1 the source of life and power
You are completely ok and right.
Your contribution can
always improve.
What is alive in you:
What utopia, what drama,
what potential, what need?
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B2 Base card - the process structure explained
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system diagnosis / -prognosis
or
system control?
Create a systemor select one.
Frame it in the sense of your liveliness
Take the position, that suits you.
Do not only react and function.
Act and pay attention to the
functiomality of a system.
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V1 Preparation individual - resistance and trauma
Reminder of a
violation of integrity
„Tear in
the
soul dress"
Traum
a, loss
of
perceived
integrity
protective wall
rage
yearning
Boundaries separate.
Intelligent assigning
is something else.
Through the resistance triangle
the dramas in the system
are spread and inherited.
NO
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protective
idea
What is your self-understanding and
Self-esteem beyond opposition
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aggression
#the offender
faint
helplessness
#The victim
passive hoping
#the saviour
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Problems are always outside,
and will be realized inside
through feelings and
needs.
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Do you think that
the problem is inside,
the feelings
will seem to confirm
this mistake
To live means to
experience life.
Inside are feelings
and needs,
(internal dynamics)
but no problems.
Problems are only
solvable where
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V2 Preparation individual - problem localization
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How much community
and how many people
can be alive in you?
BE or HAVE?
HABEN is linearly aligned
(I want SOMETHING to have),
On the other hand, BEEING is
field-like swinging.
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V3 Preparation individual - Expansion and alignment of consciousness
YOUR game or
OUR game?
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craving
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craving
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Object
of fear
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- insufficient
- problematic
- dependent
- blameworthy
- has to adapt
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collective
experience
- Fun
- addiction
- dissolution of boundaries
- hysteria
- masses
- fusion
- dissolution
= loss of self
- the source of everything
- overpowering
- legislatively
- supervising
- punitive
- please
- beg
- attract
- deceive
- stage
- promise
plan
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linear
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function
fulfillment
- torment
- pressure
- compulsion
- blackmailing
- praise
- payment
- external motivation
= burnout
Really right this way?
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S1 System mode - conventional functional system
13. 4
synergetic
co-designing
3
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sensitivity
2
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- serving
- needs the human being
- is always inadequate
- dependent
- has to be adjusted
- changes with the
changes
the source of:
- drive source
- inspiration
- creativity
- vitality
- awareness
- meaning
- field effect instead of linearity
- fields of might replaces dominance
- joy instead of just fun
- meaning instead of function
- flow instead of hysteria
- network instead collectivity
- freedom instead of autism
- Power overflow due to
field effect
- interactive intelligence replaces
collective stupefaction
- capable of complexity
- self-organizing
- error-friendly
- unagitated
- forward-thinking
Or so!
with NVC-plus
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S2 System mode - interactive networking with NVC-plus
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quality utopia
drama
need
time bound
now fulfilled
unfulfilled
T1.1 Individual - the inner drive
interaction qualities
are the colours
of togetherness
have a dream
the call for
a quality
the past
as the power source
of an utopia
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silence
constructive
destructive
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peace
time bound
episodic, affective
now
procedural, impulsive
fulfilled
unfulfilled
T1.2 Individual - drive and neuronal processes (behavior control model)
deed
action
allowance
at all
not yet
but first
not
change
stop
terminate
not doing
after all
still
despite
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T1.3 Individual's own potential according to the Modal Matrix
motivation
fighting spirit
addiction, drive
bear
enjoy
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I want I like
T2.1 System structure - the limits of cooperation
Which system
suits me?
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Nothing has to
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only adequate
and sufficient.
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preconditions
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rules
commitments
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conditions
boundaries
laws
laws of nature
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collaborative
Framing of the
system
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Each living system
needs aliveness
of its cells
(liking, wanting, capability).
concessions
at what price?
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T2.2 System structure - Framing with the Modalmatrix
22. should
has to
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may
I can
I want I like
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consciousness
culture
matter
world view
context
way of feeling
self-image
way of understanding
spiritual understanding
ideology
compassion
heart power
streets, paths
buildings
mechanics
technique
material structure
norms
addresses
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T2.3 System structure - the levels of the system structure
habits
traditions
conventions
language
lifestyle
rules
laws
23. should
has to
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may
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T2.3.2 System structure - levels of system transformation
nature of
things
things
usage of
things
- currents
- conversions to
their orientation
- long-term trends
- what happens on site
- tactical use
- local phenomena
- the concrete situation
- broadcasting standards
- traffic planning
- demagogic change
- radio network
- road network
- barrier-free facilities
- network connection
- traffic light changed into
roundabout
- a new elevator
25. T3.1 Interactive sensitivity - synergetic field activation
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joint
synergetic
field activation
The personality
develops in togetherness
of individuals.
Togetherness
develops in the game
of the personalities.
The metabody of
togetherness is created
through the shared
game by itself.
Combined individual
potentials create
system fields.
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26. T3.2 Interactive sensitivity - parameters
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Out of which parameters
does our field arise?
connecting
parameters
28. T4.1 synergetic designing - parameters
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gestaltende
Parameter
For which parameters
we need
which skills?
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action in
communication
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home-
teams
overview and
meta service
Focus and
Result
Management
information
management
administration
keyhole
action
organized
team
cooperation
In potential fields
causal and
phenomenal results will arise.
Complex tasks are not solved
linear, but via potential fields.
In
resonant
potential-
fields
constructive
and
cooperative
results,
come
up
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meta
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(
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community
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more
intelligent
than
the
individual.
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Z1 Additional card - allocation of responsibilities in NVC-plus coaching
the
NVC-plus
process structure
for agile, organic and
life-serving cooperations
abstracte the
Cooperation
partnership, family, group,
team company, community,...
in search of
a) a diagnosis of the
system status
b) a process structure
for self-control
conkrete
1. 2.
support NVC-plus
system diagnosis and
system prognosis
Sufficient understanding of
NVC-plus and self-control of
NVC-plus implementation
explain NVC-plus
accountability
NVC-plus counselor community
a) knowledge
b) experienece
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Z2 paining points
Additional card -
Name the paining points
In cooperation, there are always stronger and weaker sources of
pain. In order to be able to take them into account in the joint
forward movement, relevant pain points should be named. From
time to time e.g. everyone names his pain points in a meeting.
Theyarenotdiscussedordealtwith.Theyareonlymadeavailable
as navigation data. Questions of understanding are of course
useful and can be answered, or not (no "why questions".
Reformulatethese).(Conflictshowevershouldbesolvede.g.with
theclassicalNVC.)
Together we can now consider whether we want to adjust the
system structures, strengthen the field or change the synergetic
designsothat"theshoenolongerpinchessohard".
33. Only practice will bring success
understand, practice, apply, share
Functions can be trained,
Learning is best done in a playful way,
with freedom and humor.
Who already knows how it works,
has stopped learning.
A giraffe comes to the ...
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Z3 Additional card