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Enneagram
The Journey for Learning & Growth
For
COACHARYA
Presented by Dr Suman Nair
Dr Suman Nair
Ph D in Organization Development ;
Post graduate - TISS
Enneagram practitioner since 1995
Employment – Ion Exchange, Pantaloons, GE,
Mastek.
Consultant, Coach & Facilitator– Since 2004
To Cover
Introductions
What is Transformation/change? Why Now?
What is Enneagram?
The Construct of Enneagram
Between Stimulus and response, there is a space.
In the space there is the power to choose our
response.
In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
Victor Frankl
What is the Enneagram?
• A system for understanding differences among people
• An alternative to seeing everyone as a better or less well
developed version of “me”
High
Performance
Average
Acute/Chronic
Stress
The Three-Dimensional Enneagram
#1: The Perfectionist
• Motto: Let MY conscience be YOUR guide
• Lost Essential Quality: Perfection
• Compensating Belief:
– I must gain worthiness and love through being good and
perfecting myself.
• I want to be morally right, to improve myself so that no
one will be able to say that I am not good.
• It is important to me that people behave as they should
• The worst thing that could happen to me is that I
become morally corrupt, a failure in my own eyes
• I am a person with high principles—logical and orderly.
1
#2: The Giver
• Motto: If you want to be loved, be lovable
• Lost Essential Quality: Universal will
• Compensating Belief:
– To get I must give. To be loved I must be needed.
• I want to love and be loved, to be helpful, and to be
appreciated for what I do.
• It is important to me that others see me as loving and
helpful.
• The worst thing that could happen to me would be to have
to live with people who don’t appreciate me or care about
me.
• I am a warm, loving, and helpful person
2
#3: The Performer
• Motto: Early to bed, early to rise, work like hell and
advertise.
– Work harder, not smarter.
– Work is more fun than fun
• Lost Essential Quality: Hope
• Compensating Belief:
– The world rewards doing, not being.
• I want to be noticed, to be admired for doing things well.
• It is important that others see me as being successful.
• The worst thing that could happen to me is that I fail at
something and other people find out.
• I am self-confident, competitive, attractive, a winner.
3
#4: The Romantic
• Motto: I feel so bad since you’ve gone, it’s almost like
having you here.
• Lost Essential Quality: Original Connection
• Compensating Belief:
– I am deficient and something really important is missing which
must be regained.
• I want to be understood and to understand myself,
It is important for me to find a meaning and a purpose in my
life.
• The worst thing that could happen to me is for people to
think that there is something emotionally wrong with me.
• I am thoughtful, sincere, sensitive, and emotionally intense.
4
#5: The Observer
• Motto: Why one has to have a body, I don’t know. A
necessary appendage to the head, I suppose.
– You can observe a lot just by watching – Yogi Berra
• Lost Essential Quality: Omniscience
• Compensating Belief:
– The world demands too much and gives too little.
• I want to know, to understand everything around me.
• It is important to me that I see things clearly and correctly.
• The worst thing that could happen to me is that my ideas be
wrong, incorrect.
• I am very perceptive and a person who sees things more
clearly than others.
5
#6: The Loyal Skeptic
• Motto: I don’t like being afraid. It scares me.
• Lost Essential Quality: Faith
• Compensating Belief:
– The world is dangerous.
• I want to belong, to be safe in my own kind of friendly
group.
• It is important to me that people be straight and fair
with me.
• The worst thing that could happen to me is that
someone I trust betrays me.
• I am strong-minded, friendly, and cautious.
6
6
# 7: The Adventurer
• Motto: When choosing between two evils, I always like to take the one
I’ve never tried before. – Mae West
• Lost Essential Quality: Sustained Concentration
• Compensating Belief:
– The world limits and frustrates people and causes pain which can be escaped.
• I want happiness, excitement, to discover, and to do new things.
• It is important to me to always have a plan for what happens next. I
always have plan for the future.
• The worst thing that could happen to me would be to be bored and broke.
• I am friendly, fun-loving, and able to do well at whatever I choose to do.
7
#8: The Boss
• Motto: Never go to bed mad—stay up and fight!.
• Lost Essential Quality: Truth
• Compensating Belief:
– This is a hard and unjust world in which the powerful take
advantage of the innocent.
• I want to be in control, to lead, and to show that I am
stronger than others.
• It is important that I be in control of what goes on around
me.
• The worst thing that could happen to me is that things
around me get out of control.
• I am different, independent, decisive, and respected.
8
#9: The Mediator
• Motto: I always procrastinate when I get around to it.
• Lost Essential Quality: Love
• Compensating Belief:
– I am unimportant so I must blend in.
• I want peacefulness, to keep things as they are (or as they
were).
• It is important that everyone get along with each other.
• The worst thing that could happen to me is to have to say
“no” to someone and have that person get angry at me.
• I am a person who is friendly and easygoing, but I can be
very stubborn sometimes.
9
Wings and Arrows
• Wings refer to the points
adjacent to a given point
(9 and 2 are wings of 1)
• Arrows flow in the
direction of behavior
under stress (1→ 4 → 2
→ 8 → 5 → 7 → 1, 6 → 3
→ 9 → 3)
• The reverse flow occurs in
secure life situations
Centers of Intelligence
The Head Center is where we process information through the
mind and are engaged in planning, thinking, problem-solving,
information-gathering, remembering and imagination.
Enneagram Types 5, 6, and 7 become fixated in the mind and
preoccupied with analysis and fears.
The Heart Center is where we process information through the
feelings and are engaged in relationship with self and others,
image, self-deception and expressing or suppressing emotions.
Enneagram Types 2, 3, and 4 become fixated in the heart and
preoccupied with how others perceive them and the image they
project.
The Body Center is where we process information through the
instinctual and gut responses and are engaged in self-forgetting,
anger, stubbornness, and containing or expressing energy.
Enneagram Types 8, 9 and 1 become fixated in the body and are
preoccupied with control or not being controlled and injustices.
Enneagram Sub Types
Our evolution as human beings has required
three basic survival strategies, known as the
basic instincts:
• Self-preservation – responding to perceived
threats and needs
• Social – creating social structures within
communities
• One-to-one – primary relationships or coupling
The 27 Subtypes
Knowing subtypes help in understanding
• How your inner work and your relationships can
benefit from this advanced Enneagram material;
• How the ruling emotion of our type is expressed
through our instinctual behaviour;
• How people are possessed, for better or worse,
by the spirit of the archetype;
• How people of the same subtype can seem more
alike than people of the same Enneagram point.

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Introduction to Enneagram | Coacharya

  • 1. Enneagram The Journey for Learning & Growth For COACHARYA Presented by Dr Suman Nair
  • 2. Dr Suman Nair Ph D in Organization Development ; Post graduate - TISS Enneagram practitioner since 1995 Employment – Ion Exchange, Pantaloons, GE, Mastek. Consultant, Coach & Facilitator– Since 2004
  • 3. To Cover Introductions What is Transformation/change? Why Now? What is Enneagram? The Construct of Enneagram
  • 4. Between Stimulus and response, there is a space. In the space there is the power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom. Victor Frankl
  • 5.
  • 6. What is the Enneagram? • A system for understanding differences among people • An alternative to seeing everyone as a better or less well developed version of “me”
  • 7.
  • 9. #1: The Perfectionist • Motto: Let MY conscience be YOUR guide • Lost Essential Quality: Perfection • Compensating Belief: – I must gain worthiness and love through being good and perfecting myself. • I want to be morally right, to improve myself so that no one will be able to say that I am not good. • It is important to me that people behave as they should • The worst thing that could happen to me is that I become morally corrupt, a failure in my own eyes • I am a person with high principles—logical and orderly.
  • 10. 1
  • 11. #2: The Giver • Motto: If you want to be loved, be lovable • Lost Essential Quality: Universal will • Compensating Belief: – To get I must give. To be loved I must be needed. • I want to love and be loved, to be helpful, and to be appreciated for what I do. • It is important to me that others see me as loving and helpful. • The worst thing that could happen to me would be to have to live with people who don’t appreciate me or care about me. • I am a warm, loving, and helpful person
  • 12. 2
  • 13. #3: The Performer • Motto: Early to bed, early to rise, work like hell and advertise. – Work harder, not smarter. – Work is more fun than fun • Lost Essential Quality: Hope • Compensating Belief: – The world rewards doing, not being. • I want to be noticed, to be admired for doing things well. • It is important that others see me as being successful. • The worst thing that could happen to me is that I fail at something and other people find out. • I am self-confident, competitive, attractive, a winner.
  • 14. 3
  • 15. #4: The Romantic • Motto: I feel so bad since you’ve gone, it’s almost like having you here. • Lost Essential Quality: Original Connection • Compensating Belief: – I am deficient and something really important is missing which must be regained. • I want to be understood and to understand myself, It is important for me to find a meaning and a purpose in my life. • The worst thing that could happen to me is for people to think that there is something emotionally wrong with me. • I am thoughtful, sincere, sensitive, and emotionally intense.
  • 16. 4
  • 17. #5: The Observer • Motto: Why one has to have a body, I don’t know. A necessary appendage to the head, I suppose. – You can observe a lot just by watching – Yogi Berra • Lost Essential Quality: Omniscience • Compensating Belief: – The world demands too much and gives too little. • I want to know, to understand everything around me. • It is important to me that I see things clearly and correctly. • The worst thing that could happen to me is that my ideas be wrong, incorrect. • I am very perceptive and a person who sees things more clearly than others.
  • 18. 5
  • 19. #6: The Loyal Skeptic • Motto: I don’t like being afraid. It scares me. • Lost Essential Quality: Faith • Compensating Belief: – The world is dangerous. • I want to belong, to be safe in my own kind of friendly group. • It is important to me that people be straight and fair with me. • The worst thing that could happen to me is that someone I trust betrays me. • I am strong-minded, friendly, and cautious.
  • 20. 6
  • 21. 6
  • 22. # 7: The Adventurer • Motto: When choosing between two evils, I always like to take the one I’ve never tried before. – Mae West • Lost Essential Quality: Sustained Concentration • Compensating Belief: – The world limits and frustrates people and causes pain which can be escaped. • I want happiness, excitement, to discover, and to do new things. • It is important to me to always have a plan for what happens next. I always have plan for the future. • The worst thing that could happen to me would be to be bored and broke. • I am friendly, fun-loving, and able to do well at whatever I choose to do.
  • 23. 7
  • 24. #8: The Boss • Motto: Never go to bed mad—stay up and fight!. • Lost Essential Quality: Truth • Compensating Belief: – This is a hard and unjust world in which the powerful take advantage of the innocent. • I want to be in control, to lead, and to show that I am stronger than others. • It is important that I be in control of what goes on around me. • The worst thing that could happen to me is that things around me get out of control. • I am different, independent, decisive, and respected.
  • 25. 8
  • 26. #9: The Mediator • Motto: I always procrastinate when I get around to it. • Lost Essential Quality: Love • Compensating Belief: – I am unimportant so I must blend in. • I want peacefulness, to keep things as they are (or as they were). • It is important that everyone get along with each other. • The worst thing that could happen to me is to have to say “no” to someone and have that person get angry at me. • I am a person who is friendly and easygoing, but I can be very stubborn sometimes.
  • 27. 9
  • 28. Wings and Arrows • Wings refer to the points adjacent to a given point (9 and 2 are wings of 1) • Arrows flow in the direction of behavior under stress (1→ 4 → 2 → 8 → 5 → 7 → 1, 6 → 3 → 9 → 3) • The reverse flow occurs in secure life situations
  • 30. The Head Center is where we process information through the mind and are engaged in planning, thinking, problem-solving, information-gathering, remembering and imagination. Enneagram Types 5, 6, and 7 become fixated in the mind and preoccupied with analysis and fears. The Heart Center is where we process information through the feelings and are engaged in relationship with self and others, image, self-deception and expressing or suppressing emotions. Enneagram Types 2, 3, and 4 become fixated in the heart and preoccupied with how others perceive them and the image they project. The Body Center is where we process information through the instinctual and gut responses and are engaged in self-forgetting, anger, stubbornness, and containing or expressing energy. Enneagram Types 8, 9 and 1 become fixated in the body and are preoccupied with control or not being controlled and injustices.
  • 31. Enneagram Sub Types Our evolution as human beings has required three basic survival strategies, known as the basic instincts: • Self-preservation – responding to perceived threats and needs • Social – creating social structures within communities • One-to-one – primary relationships or coupling
  • 32. The 27 Subtypes Knowing subtypes help in understanding • How your inner work and your relationships can benefit from this advanced Enneagram material; • How the ruling emotion of our type is expressed through our instinctual behaviour; • How people are possessed, for better or worse, by the spirit of the archetype; • How people of the same subtype can seem more alike than people of the same Enneagram point.